Consent first, always

A few simple guidelines keep Pedestal safe, warm and welcoming for everyone. Read them before you arrive.

  1. Consent is everything

    Ask first, every time. All play must be consensual - no exceptions. Make sure you have consent before you touch or play.

  2. No means no

    Never harass or pester other guests for play (asking politely is always welcome, but don’t ask again if refused.) - Take a decline gracefully.

  3. Pedestal is exclusively femdom

    Men are not permitted to attempt to dominate women in any way at Club Pedestal.

  4. No pay-for-play

    It’s a lifestyle event. Do not offer or ask for money in return for play while at the club.

  5. Respect each other

    Pedestal will not tolerate any form of physical or verbal harassment or abuse; particularly any offensive or prejudicial behavior based on disability, gender identity or presentation, race, sexual orientation, or misogyny.

  6. No sexually explicit acts

    Sex & sexually explicit acts are not allowed. No play involving blood or bodily fluids.

  7. No photography

    Unauthorised photography with cameras or phones is strictly prohibited. Our dungeon areas are "No Phone Zones", do not take your phones out in the play areas.

  8. Don’t interrupt play

    Please respect the space surrounding those who are playing. Do not interrupt people while they are playing.

  9. Respect submissive identities

    Submissive women and non-binary submissives are welcome at Pedestal. Don’t ask submissive women or non-binary submissives to take on a dominant role. Anyone wearing a collar or a wristband is making their submissive identity clear. Please respect that

  10. Play at your own risk

    Guests use the dungeon furniture displayed at their own risk.

  11. Help keep the event safe

    Help us to maintain Pedestal as an enjoyable FemDom environment by informing Pedestal Dungeon Monitors or House Slaves when our rules or guidelines are broken. We reserve the right to refuse entry to or remove anyone who does not comply with these rules.

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